No Sex

What's the average married couple's sex life like? I feel like I'm lucky if we have sex twice a month and that's only because I initiate it every single time. We've been married 3 years and together 5.5. He's not the type of man to cheat but what is the deal? I ask him if he wants me or wants to have sex and he says yes...but...why doesn't he initiate?!?!!! I know some people just have low libido, I'm not craving it all the time but come on. Very frustrating and I don't feel sexy or wanted.  :-/
We don't have any children or anything stressful going on. He's just never initiated. Ever. I can't think of any times where he's just come up and started loving on me. I even put it to the test once right after we got married. I didn't initiate for a whole month so guess what...we didn't have sex for a whole month. :-(  Then after that month I found porn sites on our iPad and when I questioned him about it he said "well we hadn't done anything in a while." Wtf. I'm RIGHT HERE, do something. Ugh. 

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