How long to wait before sleeping with someone you have been seeing, especially when you like them and want them to stay around?

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I have been on a few dates with a guy, and have spent the night twice at his place just making out and cuddling. He said he likes me a lot and not just for physical reasons, but it's hard to tell when I should give it up to him, or if I should at all. I like him a lot as well, and want to have sex with him; however, I don't want him to disappear after we do take that step.

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It's really up to you..I was worried because I had sex with my guy on the 3rd date....which was only a week after the first haha...we have been together almost two years and are gettin married next month :)...sex doesn't have to ruin a relationship if it's suppose to work out it will

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I had sex the first date after meeting him just a week before... there was loads of chemistry and I really really liked him the moment I met him. If it feels right, do it, but if your worried about him running maybe its not quite right!

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It's totally up to you. Have sex when you're ready. 
I had sex with my partner the first night and we've been together four years & have a baby on the way :)

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My boyfriend and I waited two years. Then again it was because we decided we were young & waited until after high school when we felt ready. I guess you've just gotta know whether the person is worth it or cares enough. ☺️ we've been together now almost four years.

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Do it if you want to. Do so with genuine feelings, but keep in mind all possible outcomes. If he runs after sex, you know it wasn't meant to be anyway.

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90 day rule.

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It IS hard to tell sometimes. So make him wait. If he genuinely likes you, he will not mind waiting. X

How long to wait before sleeping with someone you have been seeing, especially when you like them and want them to stay around?

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