Very confused...????

Question

I am a 21 yr old female with a 32 year old we have been together since April 2011. I have been to school, ex-military and have a good career under my belt. He has a stable job as well, although he didnt go to school. But he is the bread winner ! Any way I am really, really wanting a baby and the only thing is for him we aren't married yet. I am not much wanting/thinking getting married would be as much of importance as it is to him as it is to me to have a baby. We have everything we could possibly ever need to have one and he wants to at least wait another year or two.

But I feel as though him not wanting this as much as I do as well as a lot of things in our relationship is kinda a turn off to me and I feel like I'm falling out of love with him. Sex is the biggest problem, we don't have enough and it's just very lazy sex. ?And it's ben like that since I moved in(2012) ?

I am just confused and really want someone's honest opinion.

Thx guys ??

Answer

Boring sex? Wheres the fun in making the baby? & remember having a baby is a huge deal and with who. Maybe you should wait and see how things play out and talk to your partner

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I've been with my man for 10yrs. ( I'm 33, He's 45) & we just got married in August 2014. He is 12 yrs. older then me & our relationship is good, our sex is amazing, he's never tired, it's always me. So... U need to talk to him, cause it seems like sense u moved in together he has gotten lazy in the bed( use to things). Go & bring some spices back to your love life, stop thinking about having a baby so much. It happens when u least expect 
it. That's the fastest way to mess your relationship. Good Luck

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I am not against the big age difference, I was dating someone 9 years older than me when I was your age. Thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. Long story short and 12 or 13 years later, haven't talked to him..

My point is, take your time, make sure he is the one you want to be with, live with him longer.

Very confused...????

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