Sibling rant... Looking for advice..

I feel defeated.. Lonely.. Frustrated and angry...

Some backstory.. In July 2015 my husband and I lost our son at 22 weeks and 5 days gestation.. It broke us.. Our marriage was andis still perfect but it truely ripoed our hearts to shreds.. Not 1 week after my brother comes to us asking if he can stay for 2 weeks while he and his gf break up (and .. You know we wouldnt be needing the.nursery anymore 😢).. We allow him amd his 95 pound german shepherd dog to move in under the sense it was temporary..

Fastforward almost 7 months:

He is still here.. Hes moving out on Saturday eledgedly but during those 7 months he didnt pay for a bill, food, rent, expense, nada... Just him going out til 2am every night doing whatever he wants...

Meanwhile we were living off credit cards, husband lost his job, i found one but was terminated after they found out i was expecting again, husband found a new job but pays 10 dollars less per hour than before.. And in that we have medical bills for the. Baby we never brought home and other things we need.to pay...

We brought it up in January he needs to find a place and he said that he was just trying.to find a good place that will allow.his dog.. We live on the edge of a.city in the south where with a deposit anyplace will take his dog.. What he was truely looking for was a place in.the fancy upscale side of the university area to open up.. He told.us he makes 6000 dollars a month and just wanted to find something since hese never had a monthly bill...

I was crushed.. He makes a good bit.more than my husband and we have been.scrapoing.by all the while thinking we were helping him get on his feet while.he was actually making a decent salary and didnt have any other bills (dad pays for his insurance and cell phone..) I feel completely taoen advantage of... When my husband amd.I went through the darkest times of our life and went to therapy for it and barely could afford it.. He was just clubbing every night with friends and enjoying life.. Eating our food.. Using our power and water.. Internet.. Gas.. Everything... His dog has ruined our place by scratching.the paint off doors, scratching.the hardwoods, and smelling up the couch and dog hair is everywhere thst he doesnt clean up.. His room and his bathroom are nasty and unkept.. Yet hes leaving tomorrow to go.start his.new life.in hipster NoDa.. And.leave us behind...

I knowi.should never compare lifes and should.never compare who has more or.less.. But it is truely breaking.my heart that he lead us to believe he was.pennyless and trying to get on his feet when he truely just didnt want to pay for anything... Im heartbroken that in our worst days he was living here for free.and didnt care if we had money to put food.on the table.. He would get enough for himself amd thats it..

Sorry for the rant.. I know.he.moves out tomorrow so theres no point.bringing it.up now.. He wont even.help.pay for the property taxes on this.place even though he spent.over half.a year here...

Just sucks... I understand if this gets burried.. I just needed to let this out...