Staying positive..?

Je

I'm wondering if some of you lovely ladies can help me out. I'm starting to feel depressed about baby making and all its frustrations. We haven't been ttc for lomg, but I'm already coming down hard on myself and I feel like it's me that's preventing us from getting pregnant (even though I know there's many reasons that factor into why aren't yet).

What keeps you going and positive? Any insight and advice greatly appreciated. Baby dust!