30 year old impregnating a 17 year old
My exes little sister ( my daughter's aunt) is 17 and 3 months pregnant. The father is a 30 year old man. I can't wrap my mind around this. I'm not happy for her because she's in for a world of BS once that baby is born. This guy and her have been "together" 6 months..... So basically she got pregnant right away.
I look at this and wish the laws were different. Under 18 should be statutory rape over 2 years older than the person under 18 involved.
This guy seems very codependent on this child.
I'm 30 and can't even imagine being with a 17 year old child. Like....what would I do with that?
Sorry had to vent.
Just to add: I'm not happy for her not because I'm jealous (I'm not TTC), but because of the shit storm that will ensue once the baby is born.
EDIT: I'm in Canada. It's perfectly legal unfortunately. She is 17 and has been very troubled since age 14/15. She may know what she is doing, but this MAN also knows what he is doing. Having been in a situation a bit the same as a kid, I look back and wonder what the hell a grown ass man was doing with teenage me. My only answer...he was a predator taking advantage of a vulnerable child with no self esteem, and who was very naive. Exactly how she is.
Her family is NOT okay with this, but there isn't anything they can do.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.