Do you think it's disrespectful to use a vibrator in bed if your spouse finished and you didn't? Like they are asleep and you're laying there like ummmmm...

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I'm also thinking it's kinda rude on the guys part if he finishes then rolls over and goes to sleep...hello dudes! Finish your girl too! Lol

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My husband doesn't let himself finish until I do!

*que Eve - Gotta Man*

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I use it while we are having sex. That way we can both finish together.

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It's not fair if he got all the pleasure and you got left out

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That's why you include him in the process! :-)

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Shit no. If he didn't help me have mine then I'm going to do it on my own. I say, "Hey, I'm whipping out the vibrator. Just feel like I need to come. Let me know if the noise bothers you."

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Use whatever you have!!! My husband loves to watch and he holds me and talks me through it until I cum....he likes to hear me call out his name!!!...

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I can only count a few times in 9plus yrs I had to. Not only does he not mind, he likes to watch. Which has occasionally turned into round 2.

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Most guys don't care. Ask him and see what he thinks. For many it's a turn on, especially if you let them watch.

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If he refuses to finish you after he got his, no it isn't. Get your orgasm on.

Do you think it's disrespectful to use a vibrator in bed if your spouse finished and you didn't? Like they are asleep and you're laying there like ummmmm...

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