Would u ever take back a man that cheated on you?

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Yes I heard "once a cheater always one" blah blah blah well here's the story my long time ex asked to take me to dinner and talk (mind u I do have A BOYFRIEND!!! so its just dinner & to catch up!!! *BEFORE ANYONE SAYS IM CHEATING!!!** I'm not and would NEVER! Well anyways when I was with this man I didn't know he was cheating on me he got another female pregnant! YES I KNOW!!! and now him and the baby mother is CO-parenting!!  it even went as far as him proposing to me to be HIS WIFE! I love my boyfriend but going to have dinner with this man lets call him N I'm scared i won't love his son right! If we ever did think about getting back together a long time from now! Opinions... ***DONT BE RUDE WITH YOUR COMMENTS ILL DELETE YOUR COMMENTS****

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I wouldn't go to dinner with someone who cheated on me ESPECIALLY if I had a boyfriend

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If you really love your boyfriend you wouldn't be thinking about being with this other guy?? A cheater no less?? If he'll go as far as getting another girl pregnant while he was with you, imagine what else he could do?

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Nope. If he couldn't recognize my greatness the first time around and had the nerve to cheat on me he's as good as gone for ever.

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Nope. Move on. Sounds dramatic, complicated, and is unfair to you. He cheated, he lied, he has a child to remind you of it. I'd move on karrueche tran style.

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I wouldn't like that at all. Finding out he got a girl pregnant while cheating on me would be the nail in that coffin. ☠☠ even if he changed, I would feel very jaded. 
As my redneck family members would say, "that dog won't hunt."

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Never ever

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😣eeew no I couldn't. Just knowing he was lieing to me..holding another woman and being inside her.. Then coming home to me is unforgivable. 👐 can't have it I'd have to stay far away from him so I wouldn't🔪 him

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I wouldn't go so far as to say you're cheating by thinking about dating someone else. I do think if you can think about it though then maybe the guy you're  with is not the one. When you find the right one, even thinking about being with someone else just feels totally wrong and not possible. That said, your guy should feel the same about you. So if he could go to someone else while with you... he's a waste of your time. Not because he's a terrible person or anything. I'm not judging.  But because the right man will NEVER look to another for what he has right in front of him. You're worth more than that. Don't ever let a man treat you like less than what you are. He had his chance. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, Shane on me." Don't let him shame you.

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I'm definitely not interested in going to dinner with him that was just his offer!!! I'm staying home and going to face time my boyfriend!!! I just want others opinions

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If you really want to be with your current boyfriend then why are you seeing your ex? And why agree you thinking about being together in the future and loving his kid?

Would u ever take back a man that cheated on you?

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