Long but need womenly advice pls

This is dumb but I need opinions from married/long term relationship women please.  My husband and I get along usually but we go through periods of arguing for a week then we'll be fine again for awhile. We've been together for 10 years; no kids. Two days ago he was getting ready for work and in a bratty voice goes "are you going to work???" (i was still in bed). It doesnt really matter when I get to work as I'm in sales and work from anywhere and he has some sort of internal issue against it. I go, uhm YEAH!! He says "that was rude say sorry!"... I tell him, no I'm not 2 years old and not apologizing for something not worth apologizing for. He then proceeds to say, great fine you're a bitch f off BYE!! and leaves! Ok dumb fight it happens. But he keeps bringing it up! We were fine then he'll say, and are you going to say  sorry for flipping out and being a jerk on Wednesday? ......uh no, because thats not how it happened. Clearly both of us remember this STUPID ASS argument in different ways. I have a good memory and know what happened. It bothers me because he blows random shit like this out of proportion and I just keep saying, k I'm not going to fight lets get over it..  Please give me advice ! I know this is ridiculous but I seriously hate when this happens! Its not often but when it does happen I just think about how much I can't stand him.