Never give it much thought until last few days

So, no judgements please seriously, I've already felt as low as I possibly ever could. You never know where someone's minds at. Or why situations occur. 

So I was seeing this guy, who had a gf and two boys, he claimed to not love her and was only there for his boys, his mum knows mine, and apparently it's true, he used to cry to his mum all the time about how much he didn't want to be there. But he got her pregnant after 1 month together and his mum advised him to stay and do the right thing. He kept saying when his boys are older, and know him well enough,where she can't stop him seeing them, he plans to leave, his fears are that she will stop contact because she is 'obsessed' with him and 'trapped' him. 

Anyways, he's out cheating and doing what HE wants every night of the week, while she's at home. She doesn't seem to care much!!! And forgives him for everything he does. 

So, I ended up pregnant, and I was so scared of disturbing his life and hers, I decided it best not to even tell him, what they don't know won't hurt them. But I was advised by everyone, including on here, that it was wrong and i needed to tell him. So at 35 weeks that's what I done. And sure enough, with the shock, weeks past and I didn't hear from him. 

THEN, he rings me, and sure enough, he didn't seem much affected, it was like the whole situation was a joke and a laughing matter. He said, he didn't even care about what happens between him and her, just as long as she doesn't stop him seeing his boys, which he thinks she will do. And he doesn't know where he will end up, as he dosentwant to end up back at his mums at his age. He's 30. But other than that,

No I'm not worried about me and her breaking up or anything. Then making wee comments about how it's only a wee baby it's not a big deal, it's not the end of the world. 

But later in the conversation he tries to tell me, I think she will stay with me anyway if I just stay away from you and the baby. 😕😕 and I just said, Oright ok then we hopefully it all works out that way for you, then he said yea hopefully it does work out that way for the best, then we can keep in touch. Deffinately. None of this clicked with me, then after thinking about it I was like, hold up, basically what he's telling me here is he will ask her to stay with him, if he doesn't see his own daughter, then, he will see her in secret, and start lying to the girl again, and there he is away off the phone thinking we are wee buddies now suddenly and this is ok to say this to me. So I text him saying right just clicked on,if you think your going to tell a girl, you don't love and can't remain faithful to, that u will stay, and not see or father your daughter, then think u can start lying again, and come land at my door or text to see her when u can and when u please, think again, because it's not happening. No one will put my daughter second best like that, have her as a wee secret especially not her own father, and he wrote back, I thought we where getting along and talking normal, why u back in fight mode. I wrote because you are a scumbag, that's no MAN, and cant believe you think that's ok to say to me, delete this number please. And that's bee it, that was over a week or more ago, and haven't heard a word from him since. What exactly is this geezer playing at he knows his baby girl is due any day now, infact for all he knows she's here already. Plus his mum started to text me just before Mother's Day saying how excited she wAs. And to make sure I keep in touch. She knows he cheats and doesn't love that girl, and covers for hima the time, as she feels it's her 'responsibility' for making him stay with her for his kids. And doing the right thing.