Do you think you can baby your man too much?

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I'm polling because all my friends tell me I baby my man meaning cook clean up after him cuddle him. I just love to make him happy.

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As long as he doesn't take advantage of it, I don't think there's a limit.

But it's important for him to appreciate and reciprocate.

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My mama started out her marriage like that and now my dad acts helpless without her. Add kids into the mix and the woman is always put last and the man is used to it. Old habits die hard, remember that! Disclaimer: I believe in taking care of each other equally

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No, I don't think so if you enjoy doing it then do it. People judge other people's relationships sometimes because they're jealous. If he does things for you. I'm the same way I love doing things for my SO. Don't listen to nonsense. Do what you do own it!

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I get wanting to make your man happy but there has to be boundary because a grown man acting like a baby is the most frustrating thing ever

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My so and I we always feed each other but I always take advantage to be fed a bit more. As a guy I enjoy caring for her and being "the big spoon" but snuggling into her like a baby is always quite nice every so often. Guys need to be babied too lol

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Definitely you can. You're meant to be partners, a team who work together through life. You're not his mum who does everything for him in fear of him not being "happy" - doesn't sound like the healthiest of relationships. 🤔

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Wow I was just about to make a post similar to this! 
My SO is totally taking advantage of me spoiling him and not giving anything in return. It's partly my fault bc I've let it go on but I've also expressed to him that I'm tired of it and things need to change but he sees nothing wrong with the way things are. Idk whay to do anymore.

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Yes I pulled back. Some get too used to it and if they are doing things that make them not deserving then I pull back. I don't like to be taken for granted .

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I don't think there's anything wrong with showing your man that you love Him by doing things for him, but I think that the giving should be done equally. For example, I do a lot of stuff for my husband(cook, clean, cuddle, etc.) but he also does a TON for me so I don't really mind. Like just this morning he got up before me and made me coffee and got me breakfast because he knows I'm not a morning person! It really should be done mutually! So if you do it all, I say that eventually you're going to get burned out. Spoil EACH OTHER!

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I do this to much lol baby and baby tf out of him and he does the same exact thing to me everything I want goes and it's funny really is I remember him being sick and me waking him up with a bag of skittles he was so happy lol idc though if he makes me happy why not make him happy in the same or different ways

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