I have a heightened sex drive (FINALLY), but I feel like I'm a virgin every single time we start to have sex, and it takes a while before it's not painful for me and by then he's pretty well done 😂 Four play isn't helping and I HATE lube of any kind (I just can't stand how it feels inside of me) but it doesn't seem to help much. I'm worried because I know people say that the first time having sex after birth is like the actual first time...but it already feels that way for us! Is it actually going to get worse???