Family

Do you consider your husbands family as your family? You've only met his immediate family (dad, mom, and brother). Would you be comfortable enough to go over their house to introduce you and your child without him? My definition of family is a little bit stricter than his view of family. He wants me to go and meet his grandma without him so she can meet our son, I don't feel comfortable because I don't know her. He says I'm family because of marriage.