First Gyno Visit Nerves

Ive never been to a gyno before and i like to stay very private about down there. Im getting like really nervous ik i shouldnt, idk y i am but like what is a "normal looking" vagina? Like with shaving, is there a specific way ur supposed to shave down there? Ik this is just me being stupid and paranoid but what if she looks and it doesnt look normal, not like damaged and stuff but like hair and justt idk how to explain it but im rlly nervous. I guess im scared to get judged but idk, can someone help me?