Help please!!! TMI but needed
**Now I may sound like a slut at some points in this but I truly do have specific standards*
Please help me! I have three guys currently... Well kinda three... And I need a little help deciding... Especially after last night...
So first guy is Army.. Not bad looking. I've slept with him a few times now and it's only been us for over a month... But he doesn't know what we are and even after a few rounds of amazing sex last night. As we were talking and falling asleep, I asked about what are "we " again and got the same answer.. I don't know... Then I asked about is it okay to see other people while we are doing what we are doing?? He was quiet for a little then said "I guess that's okay" he had his back turned to me and that was it.... This morning he was super sweet, giving me hugs and kisses (he hates kissing) but he knows I like it.... Opinions?
Second guy... Also Army and happens to be stationed at the same base with the first guy. Now he and I haven't done anything yet but we have been talking since before I met guy 1... He has flat out told me he wants to be friends with benefits but I can't be with anybody else at all...... But he also wouldn't be with any other girls? He just doesn't want a label...
Guy three..... Normal! Haha he is also wanting a friends with benefits thing (possibly to lead to dating but can sleep with other people still) but he is helping me move out of my current living situation and renting a house with some others together.... Yes, he knows about guy 1 already and is okay with it for the time being...
I NEED help with this!! I have never been in any sort of situation and need outsider perspective that is not close friends....
Also I almost kept telling guy 1 that I loved him last night... But couldn't do it because I know he doesn't love me back because I can tell it's still to soon after his last gf of 4.5yrs left him after planning a wedding... Along with the fact I've never told a guy I love them before and he has sadly been the most consistent thing I've ever had...
HELP!!
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