Military Couples?

My husband is in the military and currently stationed about 30 hours away from where we are from. My first appointment isn't until the 25th so I'm not sure my exact due date but according to glow I'm about 6 weeks and 2 days. My question is did you feel pressure from your family to come home and have the baby there? I would love to but my husband is being deployed VERY shortly after the baby is born and I feel like he should get as much time in with me/baby as he can before then. :( my family disagrees and I'm totally stressing out over it! Anyone else relate?