What do I do?

Question

My boyfriend and I are coming up on 2 months, not that long I know, but we talked for at least a month before hand. He helped me through a break up with a very toxic person and I can't thank him enough for it but...

Could I have moved on too quickly? I care so much for my boyfriend. I would do anything for him, we've talked two other times in our past but timing wasn't right. It feels so perfect this time it's almost scary. But then again every single day I see or do something that reminds me of my ex that I was with for 9 months. I'm only 19 and he's the only guy I've ever lived with. Should I feel guilty for still having him in my head and even missing him? Should I talk to my bf about it? Do it just ignore it? What do I do? With my stupid depression/anxiety this is literally making me sick

Please help

Answer

Only you know if you were ready to move on or not. I don't know how much time passed between the breakup and you getting together with this guy, but sometimes with bad relationships, it doesn't take as long to move on because you've already been grieving for the end of the relationship for a long time before it officially ended. It's normal to have these sad feelings even though you don't want that relationship back. They will fade over time. I think it's okay to talk to your current boyfriend about this, especially since he helped you through the breakup in the first place so you've obviously talked to him about this guy before. Just make sure you frame it in a way that you're sad for the end of the relationship, not that you want it back.

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Why would you want someone back that was toxic? I mean, people don't change and I don't think I would want someone in my life again that made my life hell. Would it be worth that toxicity to have that person in your life again? 😕🤔

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I would just ignore it. You'll be over it soon enough... Focus on your relationship now and what makes you happy where you are

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