How the hell do you NOT see a line?

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Does it drive you crazy when you read women ask do you see a line and you OBVIOUSLY can tell there is no line?! How do they not see that?

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obviously you haven't been ttc for that long because if you truly understood  what it is like for us hopelessly hoping and seeing the faintest of vvvvvvvvfl you would truly understand  this ttc struggle.
before i started ttc i thought the same as you - two lines or one line- its that obvious right. No. 
here i am 2 yrs ttc and i even try to strain my eyes for the faintest of faint vvvvfl. the struggle and hanging on to that hope with every poas is real.

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Like Regina said you won't know the struggle till you've been through it. So pray for yourself that you won't have to be in a similar situation, because il tell you now it's a very emotional journey that women that have been ttc for long time understand well! And if it annoys that much don't view their posts!!

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It's funny cuz you did the same thing.

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I'm pretty sure OP meant pregnancy tests that are super positive and get posted like "OMG am I pregnant"?!

Also, didn't know that you're not allowed to feel certain emotions unless you've been TTC for a while. Bitter ass women telling that another woman is bitter. How ironic.

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Trying for 2 years or 2 months don't change the fact that there is a line that you can see cause its simply there or one you can't cause it isn't.

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Maybe they just want some hope? But I agree with you

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Because to them it's no so "obvious" we strain our eyes looking for a vvvvvvvvfl.
You obviously are new to the TTC world & don't need to be coming into it so rude...

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I've been TTC for over a year with 2 losses. It drives me INSANE when there is an OBVIOUS line and they're like "I don't see anything. Do you?" Well yes, there is obviously 2 lines and you know this.

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PERCEPTION IS REALITY!!!! what may be a "obvious" bfn to those looking at it may not be to the person taking it. 
you're right - in the end we are all here for the same thing - a baby but we will all experience that journey month after month and test after test differently.
some months may be harder to accept that "obvious" bfn than other month's and sometimes receiving acknowledgement from thousands of strangers around the world that it is in fact a bfn may make it easier to accept. 
regardless in whether those are "annoying"or not showing emphathy in each of our journeys - we tend to forget to do that when posting.

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🙌🏼 I think this every time. Ha!!

How the hell do you NOT see a line?

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