TTC baby #1 for 6 mths.

AF was due to come Nov 23rd. It is now the 26th and still no sign of her. I took a hpt on the 24th and this morning (26th) but I still get a bfn. My cycle is irregular, but I usually spot frequently and I've seen nothing since Nov 3rd. I'm feeling so defeated. I know I just need to wait for AF to show or a positive on my hpt but this waiting game sucks and is stressful!! What do you think? My prayers have been answered? Or I have to go through another month of trying everything!!!?