Loosing my virginity

I never ever guessed I would before marriage, but I felt it was the right time for me personally and I thought it through for several weeks before I even considered it. It was with my boyfriend of 4 months who is 19, and isn't a virgin. It hurt so much, I don't know if I have a low pain tolerance but oh man...ouch. Also bled slightly. I know this is normal, but ouch. We didn't use a condom because it was already really painful for me but he pulled out fine and then I took plan b to calm my nerves. I guess I don't have a specific question I just would love to hear virgin stories from you guys!:) I feel so happy that I don't regret anything and I think I made a much bigger deal about loosing my virginity in my head than it actually was. It honestly just made me feel closer with my SO.