What's wrong with men nowadays?!

Alex • 25, ABD&OB/GYN RDMS
I get the same shit from my dad and boyfriend. They get mad over small things at me and start cursing at me. They call me a stupid ass and and saying "effing this and effing that". When I demand respect and tell them to stop talking to me like that they call me a baby. Even though I am a sensitive person in general, I still don't think it's right to talk to me like this. Is this every guy? Lately I've just been questing everything about the way I let people treat me. 
For example, when me and my boyfriend argue, he starts doing this and when the fight is over he's like I didn't mean all that I was just very mad. But damn this excuse every single time has got me fucked up. I'm tired. They can just lay out their hurtful words and suddenly take them back? I'm so tired of this bullshit. I know people get mad and say stupid things but I'm so fed up with being treated like a punching bag.
Now with my dad I believe he may be bipolar but he would never admit to it or go get therapy so some things he may not be able to control as well and he may not mean some things because otherwise me and my dad have a very loving relationship. But today he had an episode that kind of set me off the edge. This is what I sent to my mom:

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