Had sex for the first time and...

Helen
It reeeally hurt at first.
I mean I expected it, but hoooly shit did it hurt.
I had to stop him from trying to force himself in because it hurt so much.
Definitely did NOT help that his uh...yano, was bigger than I expected & I'm tiny.
We had to try different positions & foreplay before he finally got it in!!
I also bled (found out afterwards) which was really embarrassing 😨
Is it always going to be like this (hard to get in, bleeding) or is that just a 1st time / 1st few times thing? 
I REALLY don't want to go through that first part again 😩
ALSO, side Q: When he was thrusting I had this weird urge that was similar to needing to pee?? 
It just felt like he was hitting something that gave me that feeling.
But the thing is I didn't need to go at all..
Any ideas on what that feeing could've been? 

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