Gender disappointment

Nicole
My husband and I found out today we are having a girl! I am beyond thrilled, so excited. My husband actually cried and not tears of joy. He told me last week he would be disappointed, but I didn't expect it to be this bad. I had to call him before I got home from
Work and let him know that his attitude needs to change or else he should stay at my brothers place for the night. I am already so overprotective of her and her feelings. Was that Too harsh? Anyone else have this with their significant other? How long did it last?