Is your husband nicer to other women?

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My husband and I have a great relationship. We love each other and are super close. This is not about being unfaithful at all. We work in the same building and sometimes since we carpool and see each other all day we aren't super chatty- which is totally fine! But sometimes I hear him talking to other women and he seems so interested and engaged in conversation (not flirting) but it will make me kind of sad like I want to feel that interesting all the time lol I haven't even ever confronted him about this because there is no unfaithfulness or cheating going on. But I can tell he feels guilty about it because if I walk by when he's talking to a women sometimes he will start texting me a lot more right after... Not sure if this is guilt or him just wanting me to feel good like he's giving
 me attention too.. What are your thoughts? Be nice. There isn't any unfaithfulness going on its just a question.

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I would need to see it to make a judgement but i imagine hes just a friendly person.  Is it JUST women?

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My work voice is wayyyyyyy different than my at home voice

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My ex was reaaaally friendly like almost flirty with other women but he wasn't cheating just naturally flirty as a person but it drove me nuts!

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I guess in a sense yeah but it's different. Like we have our marriage, so out conversations and interactions are a certain way. He will talk to women customers at work, and like you said your husband is, will seem more into the conversation, but it's not flirting. He's just trying to offer good customer service to them. Outside of work, he'll be the same way sometimes, but that's just him being nice. As long as there's no unfaithfulness going on, I wouldn't worry. You could tell him it kinda hurts your feelings the way he talks to everyone else and you feel kinda left out.

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Also I forgot to add that I'm a lot nicer to strangers than my own boyfriend, friends, or family. That's because I'm comfortable with them and I'm not afraid to speak my mind and be real with them. That's actually a good thing. It means I'm honest with them and comfortable to be myself around them. It doesn't mean I think they deserve to be treated any worse. I don't treat them poorly at all, I'm just nicer to strangers in general.

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My husband in general is more engaging and friendly outside the home. It's just his personality. He's more friendly with others whether it be women or men. I think we all have a public face versus private face. Even more so with extroverts. I don't work with him so the only times I see him with his coworkers is when i go with him to some sort of activity, in which case I'm automatically included. I see his texts to you as a way to make sure you feel included. I don't think it's guilt, I think it's him genuinely reaching out to you and thinking of you. Of course only you know if this is a genuine issue for the two of you and if it needs to be addressed. My impression is that it's just normal life and you happen to be in the position to see both his public and private attitudes.

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Well just think of it this way. Is he friendly with men as well that are strangers? If it's JUST women, that's a little weird. But if he's friendly with a woman AND her boyfriend or husband, I don't see anything wrong with it. And if it is only with the woman, it could be he gets along easier with women. I get along easier with guys so I understand where he would come from. I think it's nice of him that he'll text you or talk to you more after talking to a woman. In my opinion I think he knows deep down that it makes you worry a little bit and he's just trying to give you that reassurance. My boyfriend did the same thing the other day after we met our new neighbor who was a very attractive girl. I didn't make any comments or gestures that I felt threatened or insecure whatsoever. But he did act very loveable after we met her and I think it's just a reassurance type of thing.

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Yeah I would say he is. I wont lie I am extremely jealous but usually stay quiet unless I see something I was uncomfortable completely with. Its happened he let a girl drink off him and he said they are just friends and I get that but she and I dont fuck and you have babies you kiss on the mouth. I dont want to hurt someone for giving you a std or something like that because you were just being friendly. Thats how it was when we worked together. My jealously was so high then because the same girl would eat off him and im like if you dont stop her I will. So one day he went to take her into the office by themselves and I saw and said uh uh nope fuck that shit. I followed and told him to shut the fuck up and I went off on her ass. She look like she was going to cry and I wanted her too since I cant lose my job i couldnt hit her for the dumbshit she was doing on purpose. I dont know you had to be there to see what I saw but yeah I think he treats other women way better then me. Sad but I still love him.

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Hmm. Id sit him down and have a little honesty session.

Is your husband nicer to other women?

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