"Whats your number?"

Question

My boyfriend has been very adamant about me giving him my number of sexual partners. I myself feel it is not his business and its not my business his either. We been having some issues lately so he brings up why dont you tell me your number again and I simply asked him why he needs to know so much? Is it going to help our relationship? What is he going to do with this number? And if it was 7 or 28 is one gonna make him not love me anymore? And he said he wants to know so it will be easier to walk away. I simply threw out a wrong number of 36 (which is waaay higher than my actual number) and said for him to fuck himself and walk away with that.

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Never ever tell your partner how many sexual partners you've had because if it's a lot or what seems like a lot to him they will never look at you the same way again, someone posted on here before about telling her guy how many sexual partners she had and he told her he couldn't be with her because of the amount of men she slept with, me personally I wouldn't tell my BF because it's non of his business and that was the past, I was young stupid and carefree back than but safe, I don't want to know my partners because I'm such a jealous bitch lol

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I don't see the problem with knowing me and my last boyfriend knew each others number and some of the details and it didn't bother us.

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I've been with my amazing husband for 9 years. I don't know his number. He doesn't know mine. I see no reason to rehash everything I did before he and I were us. Neither does here. I don't understand why everyone goes down this rabbit hole. Totally unnecessary. If they are safe and clean and exclusive then that's all that matters

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Controlling behavior. RUN

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My fiancé knows everything about me.
He can know anything he wants.
I don't understand why it's such a big deal.

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My husband told me his and I was a little hurt but it was in the past. I also told him mine and besides him I had only slept with two other guys. Honestly even if it hurt a little I wasn't upset.

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Why don't you ask him what his is since it matters so much to him ?!

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I had sex once (well half of once) with 1 other guy before meeting my SO, biggest regret in my life, we where foster kids set up at a hotel with carers and we did it to break the rules. I met my partner a month later but we didn't start dating till 9 months later and didnt have sex until it had been over a year since the guy i half had sex with (there was insertion and a biy if movement but we got caught pretty quickly) he is okay with my number we pretty much just say we lost our Vcards to eachother which he actually did to me and i feel like i lost my real virginity to him, i think he doesn't mind because unfortunately i was also assaulted by a 30 yr old man when i was 9 :( so even if i didn't have half sex with the other foster kid boy i had still already been tainted :( we've been together 7 years now.

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We kind of have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. Honestly it's never come up, but idk if I would want to share or not. He backpacked thru Europe for months so I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to share😂 it's in the past... Tell him to move on.

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We didn't tell numbers until we lived with each other and our numbers were the same. We shared our experiences. What we liked and didn't like.

"Whats your number?"

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