Sexy time

When hubby and I first got together, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. Granted we were separated for the first year of our relationship except for like 3 visits and lots of Skype. A month and a half after he got home for good we found out I was pregnant. After I had the baby it took a very long time for me to feel like even having sex again. Now, 22 mos pp, we are finally back to having sex semi regularly, but it still takes some kind of outside aid to help get me in the mood. More specifically, talking about threesomes with another guy and such. Hubby is very jealous and thinks I don't find him attractive because I don't want to rip his clothes off as often as he wants to take off mine. Has anyone had this problem or have any insight into this? I love him and I do find him very extremely attractive. I just don't think about sex the way I used to.