I need ur opinion and advice

So I have been going out with this guy for almost two months now and we talk openly about everything. But we do have a couple of problems in our relationship because he's from Pakistan and his parents wants him to do an arrange marriage but he has told me that he does not want to do it. So he is trying to convince them not to do it and that he wants to choose his own wife. I know I might get hurt at the end but I'm willing to hold on and see what happens I mean u never know it might end with me and him getting married someday but it also might mean it might end in him marring someone from his country. I'm saddened that it might happen but I have to keep in mind that it also might not happen. I don't know everyone around me saying its a bad idea to keep seeing someone that u love and that u have to keep it a secret because of his family. I do go out with him publicly around where he lives.  His parents live back in Pakistan with the rest of the family and his brother and "uncle" lives here in the US and his brother lives with him and his uncle lives a couple of blocks away from him. And his uncle and brother have seen us together but he's worried about his parents and the rest of his family members because it's a tradition to marry ur cuzin and do an arrange marriage. I haven't met his family here or his family back in Pakistan and he hasn't met my family and friends yet and my mom has been pushing me to meet The guy I'm seeing but I keep telling my mom to wait and to hold on because idk if the relationship will last. Idk what to do. I love him so much and we talk constantly about stuff like this and I told my family and friends that I'm in a relationship with this guy Muhammad and he has told his friend about me and I've met his friend before and he's really nice. When it comes down to it our relationship is difficult and it's going to be even more difficult because of our families, our culture, and our religion is different and he's also not a US citizen yet but he does have a green card. He told me a couple of times that he want to join the army so he can become a citizen and I told him if that what u want to do then go for it but u have to know what it comes with too. He says if he joins the army it will take only three months and then he will become a US citizen or if he gets married it will take two years to become a US citizen and if he just waits it can take up to 25 years or more to become a US citizen.