relationship crisis
My brother was dating this girl who was exactly his type of person. She fit his version of a perfect girl in many ways and they shared many interested like traveling,hiking, languages etc. Over the past year they got close and started living together and even though she earned she said "if a guy loves me he should pay the rent and for dinners etc.". He asked her to pay for just groceries and even that she would pay for only at times. I know my brother is super practical and with any other girl he would suggest splitting major expenses 50-50 but since he liked this girl a lot he complied with this. They continues living together and things were mostly good.
Fast forward to a year later, they are having a rough patch and the girl had wanted to move out of her job since she is unhappy. He has been supporting her through this even though it's been hard because she has become very distant with him in the last few weeks. Today she told him "I want to be just friends and move out when I get a new job". In the meanwhile she is also inviting a guy who has been flirting with her over to live in the house just the week that my brother is traveling for work.
What do you guys think about this situation? What would you think and do? I feel it is unfair for him to cover all her expenses while she plans how to move on. He is obviously still emotionally involved with her and quite heart broken. Hate seeing him this way. Do you think it's a phase and how should he be handling it?
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