Today we found out that my 7 week 3 day old baby stopped growing about a week ago. The ultrasound showed no baby at all just a sac. While I  had a blood test taken and will have a second on Friday done the doctor spoke in past tense and while the blood test is to be certain, we all know. We all know except no one really knows. Only my husband parents and doctors knew and now I feel so alone in my grief.  My husband was adamant about not telling people in case this sort of thing happened but I reached a point where I don't give a fuck. If it makes them feel uncomfortable that's there problem. I'd rather let noisy family members and shitty competitive friends know what we're going through then to continue to pry into a subject they have no business butting themselves into in the first place.