Husband just called me a name for the first time

I'm so sad and disappointed. We each have a child from a previous relationship and we got them babysittets to spend the day and night together. We've been arguing a lot lately so I was hoping this weekend would help. Not to mention its our 1 year wedding anniverary. He wanted to watch the osu football game badly so we cancelled plans to see a movie so he could watch it at home. I'm not into football so I have been on the ipad doing whatever. Then he tells me hes having friends over so I got pissed. This was supposed to be our time together and I sacrificed it for a fucking football game. I know im on the ipad and whatever but having his friends over just really upset me. So he took his keys and left and called me a dumb bitch on the way out. I yelled out im done since he called me a name. I'm so upset. I was with a man for 7 years who verbally and physically abused me so he knows I do not tolerate name calling. What do I do here?