frustrating moms.

My uncle has a friend who just had two kids she is in her 40's and has a 4 year old and a 2 year old. I went to his house yesterday and all she did was rant about how hard it is for her than me and how I will never understand because I had my first kid at 22. And I brushed it off because everyone is different whatever. So she goes I NEED wine, again fine lots of moms drink wine. But then she turned off. Her kids started running around like lunatics she let them take their shoes off and run around in my uncles backyard which would have been fine but he has dogs that use the backyard as their toilet so as a result they stepped in poop and then she yelled at them. I understand that you're tired but there is no day off from kids they don't understand that. We as parents have to be the ines to enforce shoes because they don't know any better. Don't get my wrong I understand being a mom is hard and I know being 20 years older she is tired but I don't think that's an excuse to ignore your kids and then scold them for doing something when they didn't know any better.