How to get breathless and sweaty

Lilly
Hi Gals!! I'm Looking for advice on how to get my heart rate up and be reeeeely turned on:
You know how women in porn videos get into a state during sex? They're sweaty and moaning and almost on a horny drunken high (sorry, don't know how else to explain it)
And when my boyfriend is really horny and turned on, he's the same. Like all you can think about is sex... almost like you're drunk on it. Know what I mean?
I want to feel that way. I feel like whether it's sex or mastrabating, I'm totally 'sober' and can't really get into a state.
While I know that porn isn't really real, I've also never seen other women having sex. So I was wondering if it's normal for women to get reeeeely into sex (almost like they're drunk) as we see in porn, or is that completely unrealistic?
I'd really like to end up in a sweaty passionate heap after sex instead of hardly feeling my heart start beating, (which never really happens, even when I've orgasmed.)
Any suggestions?

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