Best Sex Toys To Spice Up A Relationship?

My husband and I have finally decided to spice up our sex life since we finally have our own bedroom and house, he's big into kinky, dirty, very S&M kinda stuff, I'm a very shy person, I've agreed to meet in the middle and open up my mind to the possibility that maybe I am a little kinky, but I don't know what to get, we're both confused on what is beet, I need help ladies, what's a good place to start off with?