Why does it have to be me?!?!?!?

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Hi, I'm new obviously. I have had 7 miscarriages in the last 2 and half years. I don't know what's wrong with me. Every time me and my husband have a positive test we get excited. And we tell everyone that we know. I have so many young friends who are either already on their 2nd child or are currently pregnant now, and are about to have their babies. I have to say I am very jealous and I am very angry. I guess I'm not proud of what has been happening lately. I don't know if it's because of past medical problems or because of a current medical problem that's making it hard for me and my husband to have children. I have kept looking at all these beautiful babies and I get baby fever so bad. But then I have to tell myself that I wasn't born to bare children. And I guess I'm just going to have to be okay with that. But I'm so angry at everyone and anything. I just am sad that I can't do this. It makes my heart break everytime I turn I see a baby. It's made me not want to leave the house because my depression has gotten so bad.

But I guess that's all I have to say. Thanks for letting me rant/talk.

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Have you gone to a doctor yet about it? There are some treatable causes of repeat miscarriages such as short luteal phase, etc. I had one miscarriage and it crushed me lower than I've ever been. You are super strong to have made it through seven. I hope you get a healthy baby soon.

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This is such a tough road. None of us expected to have fertility problems, yet here we are. I know there is a plan for all of us but sometimes it feels like I've been forgotten. I totally understand your pain, I've been blessed with twins but since then I've had 3 miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy. I always wanted a big family and I hope it's in the cards for me. I hope you find yourself with a happy healthy baby in your arms, and I hope you find the support you need here! Hang in there, we know how you feel!

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You need to find out what causing the  miscarriage you have had way to many get your husband sprem test see a fertility doctor you need answers

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You should see an endocrinologist. I did after my two miscarriages. I got lots of information and help. I have PCOS. And now I'm 34 weeks pregnant with a beautiful baby girl. You should go see one. They know more about miscarriages and their causes than a gynocologist. And can possible pin point your problem and help you through it.