is the grass greener? advice needed

Question

Me and my partner broke up in July, we have still been living together and having sex and things haven't really changed.

One day we had a massive argument and I went back onto tinder to try and get my mind off things. I came across this guys profile and we really hit it off. I met up with him for a drink and we got on so well and I really fancied him. I met up with him a second time and went round to his, we kissed but nothing else happened. He wants the exact same things as me, marriage, babies etc and I feel so comfortable around him. Every time I get a message from him I feel like a little girl and get butterflies and smile (I can't help it). He doesn't know I'm still living with my ex, he thinks I'm living on my own. He hasn't asked much about my ex and I like him so much I don't want to look like an idiot by randomly coming out with it now. I don't want to look like a liar.

My ex doesn't know I've been talking to this guy or met up with him. But we have still been having sex. I couldn't speak to my ex about marriage or children because I was always worried about his reaction but things are so different with this guy.

I don't want to keep lying and I know I've got myself into this mess of a situation but I just wanted some advice in how you think I should deal with the situation before even more feelings get involved. My mind is just all over the place at the moment. 😩

Answer

First: STOP HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX! I was in the exact situation you are in. The first step is that. Then sleep on the couch...not the same bed. These are all the mistakes i made. Stop letting him see you naked too! Then when you do tell new, cute and amazing guy the truth you'll be ok. He'll ask all of these questions. Also try looking into getting your own place. New guy is going to want to comeover one day and you dont want ex to ruin it.♡

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Well for starters stop haveing sex with your ex just because y'all broke up and still live together doesn't mean y'all should still have sex. Second it's none of your ex's business if you met someone but I feel you should tell the new guy that y'all still live together it's not like y'all are dating yet

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Yeah, you are being deceptive by not being straight forward about your situation and having sex with your ex while you are seeing this man is really not cool at all. Consider taking some time to recollect yourself before moving into the next relationship

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You have definately gotten yourself into a mess. 
It seems clear you don't want to be with your "ex" you need to take steps to end that as quickly as possible. It's not fair to anyone involved.

I can't say if the grass is greener with the new guy. It usually is in the beginning with someone new. But it surely isn't the right way to start a relationship by lying.

End your current relationship. Properly...

You will feel better 
❤️

Answer

First off, dont have sex with him if you are seeing someone! Don't start off by cheating. Tell the other guy first, that you live with your ex but scared to tell him. Figure it out. Then tell your ex you met someone. There's no point in waiting if you really like this other guy!

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