Sex Drive Differences/Problems?

Erika
Okay. So I'll try to keep this short. Boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We're both taking antidepressants but they haven't affected our sex life in the previous months. We had a similar issue earlier in our relationship where he wasn't interested in sex as a side effect and we'd go a month at a time without having sex until I'd complain about it (and this is with me trying to initiate and always getting turned down). I have a really high sex drive, I could literally go any time, anywhere, multiple times a day. And I've actually had a few boyfriend make a comment that it was like I was insatiable. 
We're getting back into that slump where sex isn't coming as frequently as I'd like, or anything intimate, really. He won't even let me go down on him. I feel like I shouldn't complain because he's still affectionate. More affectionate than before, really... but it's so frustrating! I know sex isn't everything but it's something that I need to feel satisfied and fulfilled in a relationship and I'm starting to feel unwanted and unattractive. Like there's something wrong with me that's making him not so interested. I haven't gained weight, I've actually been losing weight and he's always saying how sexy I look, but when it comes down to it, his actions... or lack there of are making me feel like the total opposite. 

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