Bed Rest issue

I just recently got put on bed rest Nov.5. I have four kids 8,6,6,and 4. My has taken over their care because my husband works night and has no way of really having them Monday thru Friday. On top of being on bed rest we were in the process of moving we had a hand full of kids cloths at new house and some at old house because I had lifting restrictions for this pregnancy and I couldn't do much moving of things during the week. My kids had clean cloths dressed nice for school everyday. My mom gets them and asked where are all the cloths. She got water was at the house and just wasn't satisfy and said she need more im like ok ma but what can I do laid up in the hospital but make calls she didn't want to drive to my house but expected my husband to take the bus to the hospital with a garbage bags full of cloths after working a 730pm- 730am shift and that's not including the 2.5 hour travel time on the bus to work and 2.5 back home. In the mean time we try to get more cloths I'm trying to explain to a sleep deprived person where kids cloths are geting calls left and right fromm my mom bills collector who don't believe I'm in hospital to get a call from my brother who live 45 mins from my kids school without traffic trying to be a superhero but doesn't know any thing about kids. My boy have ADHD he give them sugar all day with out thinking twice plus he has five dogs and thinks he can handle 4 kids drive and hour and fifteen minutes to take them to school come home home school my youngest while he works from home pick up the kids prime rush hour get them to dentist appointment and eye doctors appointment then bring them home cook dinner help with home work and have them in bed by 8 or 830 so they function in the morning. I think he trying to do the impossible. I am in more stress in the hospital then I would be if I were at home I'm lost on what to say it makes me upset thinking about everything that going on and I have no control.