Coil removal advice please!

I need your opinions ladies and gents.

I currently have a Mirena coil and have been suffering weight gain and hair loss since it was changed in may. My OH says I should remove it, but I am torn.

I am desperate to TTC but OH is not ready (I'm 37, he's 40), our relationship is fairly new being only 9 months together. This I can understand but time is not on our side. I have bad baby fever at the moment which I'm trying to get shot of!

If I have my coil removed he wants to go back to using condoms. I hate them personally. I'm allergic to latex and I get sore with the non latex ones. I also find sex much better without them and love to feel when he cums as it really turns me on. The thought of not being able to do this makes me really against using condoms again.

I don't know what to do. Do I remove the coil and suffer using condoms which I loathe, but possibly begin to loose weight again and stop my hair loss?

Or

Keep the coil and be able to enjoy sex more but put on more weight and continue loosing my hair?

This sounds a bit silly, but could do with other peoples opinions. Thank you x

Edit - I forgot to mention I get migraines on the pill so I'm a bit stumped as to what to do. Oh, and I got pregnant and had my first son on the pill too! I'm using the Mirena to treat Endometriosis and pcos, but do wonder how much its helping after 9 years! I'm at a loss what to do! Xx