Thoughts?

The past 2 days his mom has stopped by bringing him food, other medicines, and rubbing his head. The first day understandable we didn't have much in the cabinets so I was welcome to her bringing these things. The second day he seemed to be doing better but she came and stayed almost 3 hours spending time with him. I get it. 

She plans to again come today as my boyfriend wants a specific type of food that she will bring for him. Now to me it feels excessive and like he's being a big spoiled baby. Last night he seemed to be doing good so assume the same for today. Frankly it feels like a turn off now that he couldn't manage being sick without his family being involved. I know that if he just stayed home and told them he wasn't feeling well they would've been down his throat about coming over and making sure to take this medicine. When his sister and mom take over support of him it feels like there is no room for me and it's making me feel weird about him.

I don't want to make this a big deal to him as he was sick so I need to be understanding. When it comes to work he handles his stuff like a man. Some of his sporadic tasks he leaves for his sister and mom to take care of. After speaking to him about wanting to take the role of taking care of his responsibilities it seems like we will all just be fighting over who takes care of what for him.  Not long ago he received a ticket and the moment he said that I would send it in for him his sister is calling saying she needs the paper to go to the lawyer which isn't true you just need to know the charges and story. I feel great about him 99% of the time but it seems like he doesn't actually want to take care of his own responsibilities and I'm frankly not interested in fighting to take care of something in place of his mom. 

What are your thoughts? How would you feel? Am I too worried about this?