How am I going to do this alone?

Question

So I understand I've been a pretty rotten bitch since I got pregnant. But it would be nice if there was some understanding there from my bf about what I'm going through. I have 2 kids with a different dad, and now am pregnant with bfs baby. Well today he asked me if I got my cheque and I said yes. And then he ask how much it is and I was like same as usual. Then he calls me to ask me how much my cheque is and I told him the same thing again and he starts yelling at me. Then he starts messaging me this:

I don't really hate him but he makes me so upset and stresses me out so much but I still love him.

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I have to agree with him. He's asking for a reason and you got an attitude with him for no reason. I've been with my husband over a yr and still can't tell you what he makes even though it's the same each week. I've got more important things on my mind. You should pick and choose your battles wisely.

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Woah I think you were definitely in the wrong here. I don't know how he talked to you on the phone, but the way he is talking to you by text definitely isn't rude. You're the one being rude and throwing the fit. Honestly if I were him & got treated that way on the regular I'd leave too...

& you're wrong saying the baby is yours. That baby is NOT yours. It's just as much his. Do not deprive your child of a father because YOU are choosing to be petty. The baby will find out one day & resent you. Be nice & don't jump down his theist next time for a simple question. Just answer it.

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I don't know if he yelled at you on the phone or not but this could of all be avoided if you just told him a dollar amount and when you said it's his cars and apartment buy your baby you are wrong it's both of your baby

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I get heated when I see women say "it's MY child/baby". Take some time to cool off, and apologize. Whether you break up or not, it is not YOUR child.

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I think you two need to just a breather and think about things. If you really love him give him a little time and give yourself some time. If after taking a breather he still feels as unhappy in the texts as he says he is then go from there. If there's a chance that it could work out your baby will benefit greatly by having both parents together. If not you can do it on your own. Your stronger than you think. I was a single mom for almost 3 years. With 2 kids. Who were very young at the time. It was very hard but I worked my butt off and made sure my kids never went without. We as women bounce back from situations like that faster than you'd think. Especially when it involves your kids. You can do it!!

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I think you two need to just a breather and think about things. If you really love him give him a little time and give yourself some time. If after taking a breather he still feels as unhappy in the texts as he says he is then go from there. If there's a chance that it could work out your baby will benefit greatly by having both parents together. If not you can do it on your own. Your stronger than you think. I was a single mom for almost 3 years. With 2 kids. Who were very young at the time. It was very hard but I worked my butt off and made sure my kids never went without. We as women bounce back from situations like that faster than you'd think. Especially when it involves your kids. You can do it!!

How am I going to do this alone?

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