Moody husband

My husband was sick last week. He's mad at me and rubbing it in how I didn't care for him or take him to the walk in clinic. The thing is I tried checking on him in the morning but he'd always push my hand away. So I kinda got moody to like if your acting this way why should I take care of you. I also was having pain and swelling in my little toe for few weeks I admit when I finally went to the walk in the other night for my toe I should have taken him too except that I was at work all day and didn't realize how sick he was. So when I got home he was like fuck off which really made me not want to care for him. I feel bad because when I am sick he totally cares for me except I don't come with an attitude. When he acts like a jerk I don't feel like being around him. Am I wrong? He thinks I think all about me and not him