Strip club ruined my sex life

About 6 months ago my husband went to a strip club with some friends. At the time I was utterly shocked. He has never been there since I have been with him and he even tried to lie to me about being there. It was a weird feeling because he has never done this before. I did lead to a fight but we quickly got over it. 
Well since then we have had sex 4 times. That's it. In 6 months we have had sex 4 times!!! Tonight my husband and I were home, we were having a great time flirting and joking. Well then he dared me to show him my boobs. Giggling, I told him to meet me in the bedroom if he wanted to see them. He got really excited! He grabbed the lube from the hallway closet and even brushed his teeth before meeting me in the room. When he walked in I was naked. He didn't say anything just hoped under the covers, took off his clothes, and told me he was cold. I got under the covers and went in for foreplay but then he pulled my hand away. He said he couldn't get a boner. I tried to insist on foreplay to help give him a boner but he refused. 
Wtf ladies?!?! Why the sudden change?  
I know this has something to do with him but I can't help but feel insecure... like I am no longer attractive to him 😢 
Since the strip club we have had no sex life.

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