Baby Name Rant.

So me and my fiancé came up with 1 boy name and 1 girl name like right after our first ultrasound. We each have family names to continue. (His is George and mine is having Leigh somewhere in the name.) So he picked the boys name which is Zander George and I picked the girls name which is Novaleigh Ann. He told me he loved the name Novaleigh but then last night all of a sudden he doesn't like that name at all and thinks it sounds like a strippers name. He now wants us to name our daughter(if we have one) Mary Ann which is a female family name in his family and in no way want Leigh(my family's name) in our daughters name. So then I told him our son(if we have one) can't have George(his family's name) and it will be Zander Nelson cause Nelson is a male family name in my family. Well he lost his shit and said I never compromise with him and that he can't believe that I'm making him change our boy name!! When he is the one making me change our girl name!! I just can't anymore cause I know he's doing this because his mom and grandma don't like me and there for don't like Novaleigh.