Sahm FIL vent

My 5 month old is extremely high maintenance. I can hardly put her down, she won't nap alone, doesn't sleep well at night and she fusses if she's not moving all day long.

I'm a SAHM and the house is a little messier than I would like and I stay in my pjs until 3pm most days but I love my life.

My FIL recently came to visit us and took my husband out while I was home with baby. He asked my husband what I do around the house and told him that he doesn't want his son to be taken advantage of ... Because I reminded him to put our cloth diapers in the laundry when he got home and he washed a few dishes for me.

I'm so pissed ... I don't think getting a little help from my husband and the father of my child is taking advantage of him! I want to scream in my FIL's judgemental, materialistic, stupid face but I have to remain calm.

Ugh!

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For the record I do clean our house! The laundry is cheaper to run after 7pm and baby and I are usually in bed then so my husband does it, and I fold/put it away. He also cooks but he's always cooked for us.