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Okay ladies I need you're advice. So my girlfriend and I have really amazing sex and I cum (squirting mostly) when we have sex but I don't orgasm and that's the best part. She always makes me feel strange because I love to masturbate and because I can orgasm mutltiple times. Well now I'm getting frustrated because I can't orgasm when we have sex unless I use my wand and she doesn't always like for me to use it!! What do I do?