is 2 years and 4 months along time?

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so i been with my boyfriend for that long.... I love him and he does too... but sometimes i don't trust him...😒even though he texts me 24/7 and is at home with his parents.... I don't trust him because he "used" to text and snap chat other girls... When i went through his phone and confronted him, he said sorry they were his coworkers blah blah... And deleted all theirs numbers and snapchats.... I mean he never cheated on me,, just speaks to the opposite sex.. and i'm a very jealous person i get mad easily.... i know that you need to trust the person you love or else it won't work out ... but ehhhh i have a difficulty time to trust someone , Only because i never been with someone for 2 years before .... Its all new to me ... like i don't know if he wants a future with me... Idk im having second thoughts about this relationship... do you think its normal to feel like this even though everything is going fine in the relationship? i just don't want to find out he cheats on me maybe... But i been through his phone yesterday and didn't find anything lol......

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I feel like you're insecure if you went off st him and made him delete the numbers of apparent coworkers that were female 
Even if they weren't coworkers he's given you no reason not to trust him and shit man he's allowed female friends

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Lol omg this is so me! That's crazy how much this sounds like me. I feel the same way me and my bf dated for 1 year and 8 months then we broke up due to me catching him talking to other girls, nothing physical just conversation. We had a deal that neither of us would talk to the opposite sex and he lied so I broke up with him. About 1 yr and a half later he sent me this long text and we starting talking again and eventually started dating. Been with him for another almost 2 years and I don't trust him! I still have doubts that he's going to do me like the first time but he says he's changed but I always have that feeling. I'm like scarred. He's always working and I and with him mostly all the time when he's not. But I always have my doubts that he's doing something behind my back.

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Psychologists say it takes 3 years to really know someone. Friend or partner.

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I let my boyfriend talk to his friends that are girls, they know we're together and they know that they can't have him and he won't try anything so I'm fine with it. But maybe just talk to him about it, communication is key.

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I agree with you girls, I'm the same way but at the same time I talk about it with my boyfriend, and I let him know that if he talks to a girl that I've never heard of or a girl I'm uncomfortable with him talking to, I straight up tell him. I have no reason to look through his phone I trust him but I do tell him that I would like to know who he's talking to and he would like to know if I'm talking to any guys he hasn't heard of cause he has pretty much the same jealousy when it comes to that. But if you are so insecure about it I suggest you talk it out with your boyfriend l, like really talk it out, no yelling or fighting just expressing your insecurities. If he understands you'll both be able to work on those and if not and he continues to fight you on it then (sorry to be harsh) he doesn't truly love you, but I could be wrong I don't know the full story. Good luck on your relationships!!❤

is 2 years and 4 months along time?

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