I think I might have HIV

Recently I had unprotected sex, with someone I trusted and said he was clean. Thank God I got checked right after, like two weeks after sex because I was not feeling good and I got chlamydia. It was sad. I got negative on HIV and got blood tests done, but now I'm worried. I got on the patch and been having most of the side effects (nausea, headache, emotional...) but the thing that worries me is that the first week after sex, because I got STD tests the second week, I had a very sore throat and fever. Got medication prescribed and it went away; I thought that my baby that I take care of got me sick since he was sick too. But now, it's been a month and two weeks and I get sweats at night, losing appetite, sweating a lot or getting really hot and those are the first signs of HIV plus the "flu like symptoms". The man I had sex with stopped talking to me so I can't really ask if he had HIV. I'm scared and I am worried, I don't know what to do. I mean, I got a negative on both HIV tests done and have to test in 3 months when the results are more accurate. Does anyone have HIV and those were the symptoms? I'm mostly worried about sweats, I don't know if this can be a side effect of the patch...