not solving issues in a relationship

I've been dating my bf for almost two years. Even after all this time I'm still so in love with him. He's so sweet and kind to me. But like any other couple we've had our fair share of fights. But when we do fight we don't yell at each other or say mean things that we might regret. When we try to resolve these issues most of the time he stays silent and doesn't give me much of an input on how to solve these issues. To explain a bit more some of the things we fight about are things like me feeling like he blows me off when I tell him I'm upset or feeling depressed. He will just tell me things will be okay without taking an interest in figuring out why I'm upset or depressed. To me it seems like he will blow me off when I express my feelings or concerns with him. As if they're not his problem. We will talk things out but I always feel like the issues are never resolved and months down the line the same issues pop up. And I'm tired of doing this vicious cycle of going back to our same fights. I love him enough to try and work things out but sometimes I can't help but feel that he doesn't feel the same way in regards to fixing things. He would just rather wait for me to calm down and tell me excuses or that he will try and then we're back to being good again. Maybe it's me just not letting things go and I'm creating these issues. I need advice 🙁