9 year age gap!?!?

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Hello, I was wondering what people's opinions are in age gaps in relationships? 
Iv been seeing this guy who is 28 and I'm 19? We're both super similar, and get along really well but im still really unsure about age gap x

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I'm dating a guy 9 years older than me. It's difficult in certain aspects--for instance, my sex drive is a lot higher than his. His goals are also different. He wants to get married and have kids--I'm not thinking about that at all. I'm thinking about paying off my loans and getting a house. There are just certain goals and outlooks that your partner has that will be significantly different from yours. As long as you know that and can deal with whatever it is, you should be fine. Personally, I wish the age gap between me and my bf wasn't as big. Five years would've been ideal. But it is what it is. He's an awesome dude and he treats me right. I'm 23 and he's going to be 32. I was 22 when we started dating. He's still a little uncomfortable with my age, but that's normal lol he'll get over it. Anyways, what I'm trying to say is, you're a legal adult and can date a guy with this age gap. You just have to realize that he's at a completely different stage in his life and that could come into play sooner or later while you two date.

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I wouldn't worry about it, if you're happy and it works, who cares?

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Meeehh.  it doesn't matter that much right now, since you are a very young adult and he is still in the young adult phase. It will be a bit hard when he is over 30, their sex drive changes, their goals and needs change, and you'll be at THE PERFECT age, where you will discover, learn, sexual drive is waaaay high and its just the best part. 
Trust me i am 26 and my bf is 33, the only difference is that i am at my life's peak and he is already past that, i may want to go out and explore and he needs to work and take care of business, i may want sex all the time but since he works a lot he wants it most of the time. Thats part of the age difference , i still love it since he is very mature. 
My advice is that  for now just relax and enjoy the moment, time will give you want you need and the greatest experiences

Best of luckkk

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You're legally an adult. Who cares.

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As long as you're happy who cares what other people think

9 year age gap!?!?

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