Becoming Celibate!!!🤦🏾‍♂️😔😞

Hey Ladies! My name is Akielah lately I've been thinking about becoming celibate. I'm really struggling with this decision because I love doing the hokey pokey.  Then agin I'm only 21 and I have many goals. I have Lupus so I can't take birth control at all and I'm allergic to latex. Yes, I know about lamb skin condoms but are they as affective? I'm really just wondering has anyone been able to just stop. How long have you been celibate? How did you do it?!